Dear Dr Love,My boyfriend and I have lived off and on with each other for 4 years. Our last seperation was over him spending too much time with his friends, drinking too much and not able to find a job. He has held a job since he was 19. So I can understand a little unemployment.So we talked so things out, and he now spends most of his evenings with me and I don’t complain about him going fishing with his friends, I find that harmless, better than bars. And he now has a great job, and has cut way back on drinking.I really feel this is the one, but we still fight over money, sex and respecting one another. Please assure me that these are normal. And assure me my relationship is in the right direction. .thank you for any advice you may have. .