My husband and I have been married 9 years but were partners for 10 years before marriage. He has always had affairs and always denied this.For example a woman who he says was only a friend had an abortion and says the child was his. We have separated but while he cant live with me and be faithful… he can’t live without me.I have resigned myself to bringing up the kids on my own. He keeps calling for advice, for help and to talk when he finds it difficult to sleep at night. He even talks about his present women, he has 3 on the go right now.He has said he wants to come back but when we discuss his present relationships I know that there would be no change.I still like him a lot as he was and still is my best friend. Is there any way to ‘neuter’ a man who cannot keep his trousers on?