I really like going down on my girlfriend, but I am having trouble taking her to orgasm. She is pretty honest and will help me somewhat with my technique, but she is sometimes as baffled as I am.I’ve read numerous articles, and I do listen to her advice. When she engages in stimulating herself however, about the only way she can get there is by using a sheet and very little movement, and generally has trouble using her hands.Because going down on her is to some degree enjoyable for both of us, she says not to worry about getting her off, but then again, I’ve read that is one of the top ten lies that a girl tells her boyfriend or husband, and I think she says that to make me not feel bad.Could you please pass on any suggestions that you may have?
The only suggestion that I can come up with (if I can use the word ‘come’ in this context) is for you to try to duplicate what works for her when she masturbates. Since she has trained herself to respond to the very light touch of a sheet, try to duplicate that sensation for her. Perhaps you could even put a cloth over your mouth, rather than using your tongue.Little by little, with practice, she should be able to widen the type of stimulation that she can respond to.
