I am a 30 yr old woman and have been dating this wonderful man for 4 weeks now. It started off very intensly – almost every evening and weekend spent together.However it was not all sexual at all.Now he is pulling away and wanting to slow down when he is the one whom iniated much of the pace of things (meeting his family, inviting himself to stay over, etc).I have fallen for him and just this last week we had the ‘talk’about slowing things down. He has still com over twice and just talked and spent time with me, but will not stay or sleep with me. Is this a good or a bad thing? What is my next move. I don’t want to lose him.