Dear Dr. Love:I have caught my boyfriend looking at gay porn, answering personal ads for couples looking for a third that is male, joining Internet clubs for Gay Sex in our city. I have confronted him every time and asked if he is gay or bisexual, and he swears ‘no, I’m not gay or bi’and claims he was just playing around because he was bored.I love him so much and aside from these things, our year and half relationship has been the best I’ve ever had. BUT, I am now having nightmares about seeing him having sex with men. I am getting depressed about it frequently, and I am reluctant to go any further emotionally in this relationship.Is this my problem to deal with, or am I blind to having a gay boyfriend?