Hi,I have been having problems with my boyfriend of two years for 4 months now. I no longer feel attracted to him physically. I know he is a good person. He also does everything for me: puts gas in my car, buys me groceries, buys me clothes, etc. I’m just a student and he has a well-paying full-time job.I appreciate the financial support, along with the emotional support, but in ways I feel like i am using him by allowing him to do all these things for me. I don’t see him because I want to see him, rather I feel obligated to see him. LIke I owe him for all that he does.I can’t even stand to kiss him anymore. We haven’t had sex for 7 months and I never want to. I don’t understand why I am no longer attracted to this person. I know he loves me very much, and I just feel so guilty.He wants to see me this weekend, and I wrote him in an email that I will be busy. I have problems being honest to him. He insists on coming over because his roomate is gone for the weekend and he doesn’t want to be alone. I just don’t want to see him. I know he’ll take me out to dinner, etc, movie, but in a way, I’ feel bored with him. I don’t know if i just need a break from him to see if my feelings for him will come back or if I should permanently end it. He asks me why I just don’t break up with him, and I am usually confused. I think I should, but I am also uncertain if the way I feel about him is real. Maybe if we are away from eachother for a while, I’ll realize I love him.I told him that I want a break and he gets so emotional about it. He wants to talk to me every day and see me every weekend. I just can’t take it anymore. I don’t have my own life. For the past two years that I’ve been with him, I have made no friends. It was just me and him. We were in our own little world, ignoring the rest of the world. We even lived together in the same apartment last year. I couldn’t wait for him to leave. I just enjoyed his companionship.Whenever I felt lonely, he was there. He was also there when I didn’t want to see him at all. Now I don’t even want to see him on the weekends. I feel burnd out. I have many personal problems. I am shy and have difficulty making friends. It’s easy for me to fall in a relationship as a result.Maybe I should get out of this relationship and work on my self-esteem and be single for a while, learn to make friends. I find myself running to him when I have no one else to turn to. I don’t have any friends at this school, which makes it easy for me to run to him. I think if i had friends, things would be different. I wouldn’t be using him just because I would be lonely.Another thing is, when I met him two years ago, I was severly depressed. I remember not wanting to be in a relationship at all. But he pursued me adamantly by buying me stuff, being very nice and supporting, accepting, the perfect guy. I feel for him. Maybe I was running away from the world by allowing myself to be so wonderfully pampered. In ways I think our interests clash. I always found something boring about him. He is too much of a homebody, and I am more active. That’s one thing about him I didn’t like: something was just boring.Please help..I don’t know what to do.Nicole