I am 21 years old and been dating a guy for about 4 years. I love him greatly and really feel I could spend the rest of my life with him. But before we make those kind of decisions, we want to finish school. Here’s the problem. I love having sex with him but I never have an orgasam. I come, but never actually reach orgasam. I do not think it is his fault. He is really in to making me feel good. He really tries. We tried everything we can think of. I feel totally comfortable with him so I know it is not that. I think it also really hurts his ego and I hate that. I was wondering if you could offer advice.