I have been married for 6 years and I had a short term affair for about three months.I told my husband because of the guilt I felt inside. I know what I did was wrong but I tried to communicate with my husband about his lack of labido and affection for me. And when we would have sex it would last only a few minuites.He expressed to me that he felt insecure about his abilities but didn’t want to see a therapist, or work on our problems. He said that is the way he is and will never change. Now he wants a divorce because he can never trust me again or forgive me for betraying him.Should I just let him go?I would like to work on our marriage, but he just wants out.