I am writing to you because I am so confused. My therapist, (name omitted) and I ended therapy to start a relationship. After three months though it was having very ill affects on my mental health. I don’t know what to do. I promised I would not get him into trouble, so I don’t want to be a snitch.This feeling is very strong in me and I feel like hurting myself when I think about it. I did write a letter to the AMA, but felt so guilty I wrote another letter later saying to disregard the tape and letter I sent. I am so mixed up and feel that hurting myself to punish myself for lack of self control would be the only thing to help me.Please help, what can I do and still feel okay.