I need some advice. I am in a very loving relationship with a wonderful man, and I hope in the future that we will be married.Sometimes my self-confidence is not 100% which in turn brings some insecurity into our relationship. I don’t like hearing about his past relationships, and actually he rarely/never talks about other women, but, when I can guess that he’s talking about something which includes him spending time with an ex in his past – it bothers me. He also has female friends who I feel slightly threatened by (I trust him completely but I think they might be in love with him).I guess I am a slightly jealous person, and I find it difficult to control my temper and emotions. The problem is that I want to learn how to not become upset about something that is in the past. We have had this same kind of fight on numerous occasions, why can’t I just accept the fact that he loves me, he lives with me, and that his past doesn’t matter?I am afraid of pushing him away but I also can’t seem to curb my emotions, on average I get upset about once a month around the time of my period and I am on the pill but does that have anything to do with it? Sometimes I think that shouldn’t be an excuse.