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I am a 39 year old woman.I was married at the age of 17 and have now been divorced for 4 yeaars.There was much abuse in my marriage:physical and emotional-unfaithfulness on my husbands part. , drugs and acholol abuse constant throughout.I was raised as a christian and was taught that marriage is forever, no matter what. . . I am finishing my bachelors degree at university ths may. I am hoping to settle and meet new friends and a nice man one day.I find it very difficult to trust men and when they ask me about my personal life (have I been married etc). I feel confused as to what if anything I should tell them.No matter how interested they may have seemed, they usually change their behavior once I confide in them.Should I not tell them that I have been married before or been in difficult relationships? I want to move on and not recall these hurtful memories either. YYet I feel I should be honest so as to be trusted as I need to trust. . .