Dr Love,I’ve been married for a little over a year, the problem is that I’ve also been seeing another man on the side for the past two years. He is also married. Neither one of us wants to hurt our partners, but each of our relationships are sorely missing something, and we only seem to be able to find that something with each other. When this started, it was purely a sexual thing, but now I have strong feelings for this other man. He has begun to show signs of the same. Now I feel lost, I’m not sure anymore if I truly loved my husband when I married him, or if it was just a thing to do. Any advice from you would be greatly appreciated. Thanks