Hi Dr Love,My husband works with a woman that he likes very much. He says that they are just friends and that ‘s all. I am trying to believe that with all my heart! I think the reason I have trouble believing him is I found out that he was saving voicemail messages of her that had nothing to do with work!. . . . . . . . . . saving them for months at a time! They weren’t romantic in the secne that she said I love you or anything like that! They were messages that told him he’s a great guy and he always takes the time to talk with her. Also they would be very flirty! Telling him how good he does his work. . . . . . . . . . asking him for help on her personal family problems. . . . . . . . . . etc.She has made it quite clear that her and her own hubby no longer get along! He has promised to stay away from her and says he now has little contact with her! I wonder how that could be when they both work in the same office even though there offices are far apart! They still every now and then work on a project together! The problem I have with this is, he never tells me anything! I wonder If I should just leave him alone and not ask him questions? He says I must trust him! It is so hard to do!I often wonder if it’s her, that I don’t trust! But, at times, I think it’s him I really don’t trust! Can trust be rebuilt! I’d like to add one more thing! In the past he has fallen in love with another office girl and when confronted I asked him if he loved her. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . and he said yes! He loved us both! That was about 18 year’s ago! He said that he never had a friend that was a women growing up and that he didn’t see it coming! He worked with her and started to like her a lot! I really believe nothing happened back then . . . . . . . . . . . but that it was just platonic. This is taking such a toll on my health! I hate it! I really think because this has happened in the past. . . . . . . that history may repeat it self! Either I trust him or I don’t! I would appreciate any advice you have. Thanks for listening!