Dear Dr. Turndorf,My husband and I have been together for nine years. We’ve been married seven of those years. He was only 15 when we got together and I was 19. Our age difference haven’t made much difference except I feel like he hasn’t grown up. In many ways he’s matured but in others he is still the same as he was 9 years ago.He is a good provider and a wonderful father (we have one 6 year-old boy), but he often ignores me. Recently we split up because I feel he is ignoring me and won’t help around the house enough. He uses the excuse that he was this way when we married but when will he grow up? And what do I do in the meantime? I can’t work all day, come home, cook, clean, and take care of my son.Any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated