I have noticed that almost all of your answers require people to go back to their childhood to relate to today’s behavior. I have a rather strange question. Why is it that I won’t lose enough weight to keep a man in my life? I don’t have a lot to lose, but could it be that I fear if I lose the weight, that he won’t love me or to put it another way . . . . I am testing him to find out if he will love me even if I don’t lose weight?This question isn’t as deep as it may sound. I’m just basically asking ‘why’ I don’t stay on a diet when I am told by my partner that he wants me to lose weight? How could this relate to my childhood?