Dr. Love,I dont get it, why do girls give their phone number out and you call them to take them out and everytime they say I’m busy this weekend, I’ll call next week and they don’t. Obviously they aren’t interested.So, before giving me her number why couldn’t she just say she wasn’t interested? You know its not the end of my world if she says no, right??I am a good looking man, everybody tells me I am good looking; so my other question is that why is it hard for me to find the girls that I think are gorgeous? I mean I get girls, don’t get me wrong, but how about the real hot ones?Is it because I am a nice person and treat them with respect?Thanks
In answer to your first question, I think that many women are too unassertive to speak directly and say, no I’m not interested, so they give out their phone number and send off mixed signals, rather than coming out with it right from the start.In answer to your second question, why can’t you hook up with a gorgeous girl. That’s a hard question. I know you’re handsome, but I wonder if your confidence is a bit shaken by all these rejections. You know people can read your ‘vibes’ and sense if you feel hungry or desperate.You have noticed that gorgeous women are drawn to men who don’t treat them as nicely as you do. I think that the issue here isn’t how gorgeous a woman is but rather how emotionally healthy she is.Most people (ugly and attractive) have unfinished business and are drawn to lovers who mistreat them and help them relive their childhood wounds. A nice guy who offers respect isn’t going to fit the bill.Hang in there. There are healthy and attractive women out there who will welcome a nice guy like you.