I have been dating for quite some time and have really hit a wall recently. Most of the people I have dated, have been ‘whirlwind’ guys-they come into my life real fast, and then they are out of it real fast.Most of the times I am the one that is ending the relationship.Recently, I have made a decision to start off as friends with guys and take things slowly, because in the past, things have moved quite fast on the physical level. But I am not able to do it. I get caught up in the attraction, and the idea of being cared for, and end up in the same pattern.I don’t know what to do and have run out of ideas. I appreciate your input on this. Thank you.