Dear Dr. Love,I am engaged and have been for almost two years. We are planning on getting married in December of 1999. I love my fiance’ very much, but recently I have met another man who is a friend of my parents from a bar. I have gotten to know him pretty well, and we e-mail each other fairly often and talk quite a lot.I have very mixed feelings towards him because I think I love him too, but I can’t hurt my fiance’ either. I am really scared because I am doubting what my relationship actually means to me, if I can love another man. He listens to me and we can talk like we’ve known each other for years. It just feels right and comfortable. Please help me! I don’t know how much longer I can go on pretending.Sincerely, “Which Man?”