Dear Doctor,I’m a 38 year old man. I don’t date because I’m terrified of rejection. I’ve been looking for work since January, so I don’t have a lot of money to take a woman out any place too expensive. I don’t even have a car to pick a woman up in, and I know that ‘s a major turn off to women.To make things worse, I’m short, I’m fat, and I’m Black, and I find myself attracted to White and Latino women. But what woman of any race would want to go out with a loser like me? I’m so lonely.I know I’m a nice guy, but I don’t have anything to offer a woman. I’ve never even had sex, and I try not to think about it because it makes me even more depressed.I just wish I could find a woman with a gentle nature and a kind heart. Is there something wrong with me?