I met this guy at a church retreat when I was 15, he was 20. We fell head-over-heals for each other, but both decided that we would date when I was 18, realizing the age diffrence was too much. He respected me, never trying to gain anything sexual- he wasn’t using me.He was in college on the other end of the state and gradually started to pull away from me and his friends he left behind when he joined a student union. We talked every once in a while over the years, and he would drive two hours out of the way to see me but claimed he realized I wasn’t his type.I’m 18 now and he still asks to go hang out, but when I call him to finalize the plans, he either doesn’t respond or claims he’s to busy. Can you please explain what’s going on because I have no clue what is going through his mind?