hi dr. love!i am writing from malaysia. i am a student and i am in love with my lecturer who is 30+. he teaches me bio and i am a new student in his class. he is a canadian and he is new in malaysia.from the first day in class he came very close with me. . he cared alot for me. i can tell there is difference in between the way he takes care of me then the other students, no i am not a weak student i just finish a-levels with high’d’s’.whenever our eyes meet i can see a spark in our eyes. . . i dunno whether wat i am duin is right or wrong.
You asked me if what you’re doing is right or wrong, but you haven’t done anything yet! So far you’re just telling me how you feel about your teacher.Many young women develop crushes on older men. Older men are often more established and successful than guys your own age. You didn’t say whether you are in high school or college. Your age is very important here because if he acts on his obvious attraction for you and you are a minor, he could get arrested.Even if you aren’t under age, most schools have rules that prevent teachers from becoming involved with their students. So long as you don’t go into action you have nothing to worry about.If this man is right for you, he will still be right as you get a bit older. You both need to behave ethically and wait until you are over age and/or no longer his student.
