OK this all started about two years ago when I found out that this girl was crushing on me.The only thing was that I never really saw her around school so I could make a move. My friend that told me that she liked me would always see her and I would ask him to try to hook us up. Well he didn’t do much besides just tell her what kind of guy I was and she still seemed interested.Well now I have seen her around town lately. I’m just wondering how I should approach her. I mean it’s been two years since I found out that she was crushing on me. It would be kind of awkward. Should I assume she still feels the same way? What do I say?
I know you’re afraid to come on to her and be rejected.Even if your worst fear came true, and she was no longer interested, you surely will survive. I promise you that. This being said, I don’t think you need to imagine this as a life-threatening jump from a high cliff!Start small and watch for what I call for ‘Green Lights, ‘ that is signals from her that says she’s interested.Here’s how to play this. Smile when you see her and then walk up to her. Say that you’re happy to run into her because you were hoping to see her again. Then watch for Green Lights: a smile, approachable body language, moving closer to you, making eye contact, etc.Ask her interested questions, be a good listener, and tell her what you like about her. . . . and you should be ‘In like Flynn!’
