Hi Doctor,

I truly hope you can help me, I feel as though I am at the end of my rope. Every relationship I have had has ended horribly, and they never last more than three months. I am starting to think there is something wrong with me, and I am trying to find an answer to all my grief. The last time a guy has asked me out was in grade 11 (I am a second year university student) and since then I have worked to get the guy to maybe askME out…. And well, this has failed many times. Am I freaking them out?I’d like to think I’m an interesting and well rounded person, and I don’t think im ugly. I am on the heavier side, could that be the problem? Could you please just give some pointers, I feel off my game… I’m tired of beating myself up. 🙁

Dr Jamie Turndorf Changed status to publish June 29, 2022