Hello, I’ve been with the same guy for 4 and a half years and I want to know where it’s going. I feel like he treats it as him and then me, no WE.We don’t talk about marriage or anything. He just bought a house and lives alone and I’m looking for an apartment. He never talks about the future with us in mind it seems. He just talks about himself and leaves me out.I just want to know how to find out if there’s a future with ‘us’ and I don’t know how to go about finding out. I don’t want to just resort to the we need to talk and bring up the ‘where’s this relationship going’ conversation or is that what must be done.Please help.