Dear Dr. Love,I have problems sealing deals or relationships with girls. Things will start out well and both her and I will really be into each other. Then all of a sudden I must do something wrong because she then will say that she only wants to be ‘friends’ for now. I swear that I’m going to kill myself if I hear that again. Well actually I just did again.Please HELP ME! ! ! I don’t know what I am doing wrong and I could really use the help. Thank you so much! ! !Sincerely,Super Unlucky guy
I wish I could be a fly on the wall when you’re out with a girl, so that I could observe what’s happening. It is very possible that your unconscious is actually playing a bad trick on you. Here’s how. After one or two rejections, you soon felt that you were bound to be rejected. Expecting to be rejected, you may send out vibes that say, ‘go ahead end it, they all do.’Believe it or not, people can read your unconscious mind and fulfill your worst prophesies. It is also possible that your being sure that it’s going to end leads you to say or something to drive a girl away. In that way, you are in control of the ending without even realizing.These are my guesses, but we can’t be sure that my guesses are right without some feedback from people who have actually seen you in action. So gather your courage and do a bit of research. Ask the girls who have pulled back to tell you what you did to turn them off. Then, be conscious not to behave this way in the future.Also begin to reprogram your unconscious. Tell yourself that your relationship is going to go fine and send out the correct vibes in the future. Let me know how you do.