Dr. Lovei’m still in love with my ex and i think he knows. the only problem is that we both are seeing other people. we go to the same church, we each other every weekend and call.should i tell him i still have feelings for him and leave my man or just forget about the whole thing?please help me by answering this question.thanks!
It’s not my role to tell you what to do. You are the only person who can decide what you want for yourself.Once you decide what you want, then the course of action will be simple. If you decide that you want to end your current relationship and get back with your ex. then you will tell your ex. how you feel about him. If you want to stay with your current boyfriend, then you won’t tell your ex. how you feel.In making up your mind, you will need to consider the following: Even though you still love your ex. what evidence do you have that the relationship will work better this time around. In other words, have you both resolved the problems that made your relationship fail last time?If not, are you both willing to do the necessary work to resolve your individual and relational issues so that you don’t end up back where you started? In other words, before ending a relationship that seems to be working, you need to be pretty sure that you going back with your ex. isn’t going to be a step backward.Let me know what you decide.