My boyfriend and I recently ended a three year involvement. He moved to a different state, because of a job transfer one year ago and somehow we held on to each other until now. I still love him and he still loves me.We both have unsolved miseries from our past relationships. I am brutally honest, he is not. I know the relationship needs to be over; however, the familiar pain is extreme. please advise and name the steps to get over a broken heart.Thanks