I was 16 2 weeks ago and my gym coach has started trying to take advantage of me. he is 18. I have tried telling him not to and he said he wouldn’t but then he started doing it again he is really strong and can pin me down with one hand while undressing me with the other.I don’t know how to stop him .if my freinds are there with me he dosen’t care he just starts doing it anyway and if they try to stop him he just knocks them out of the way I have had sex before but i don’t want to get pregnant and he won’t use a contreceptive he says it spoils the pleasure of having sex please help me !!!!!!!!!
You are being raped. It sounds like you are pleading with your attacker to at least use a contraceptive so that you don’t get pregnant and he refuses, saying it spoils his pleasure.What is wrong with this picture? You are under eighteen and he is committing statuatory rape. You need to call the police. Tell your parents. If it’s happening on school property, tell the principle.What concerns me is that you don’t know that you are allowed to get help. That you think you need to somehow bargain with this abuser, and at least get him to use protection.If you don’t want to have sex with him, then you shouldn’t be having it, protection or not. You need to get some therapy right away to find out why you are bargaining with this guy instead of denouncing him.
