I’m divorced and had a boyfriend right away for over 3 years. He was terribly abusive and seemed to suffer from alcoholism and borderline personality disorder. Eventually, I was able to get away from him, only by cutting off all contact. I still shake when I think about how he treated me, although it’s now been 3 years since I last spoke with him.I’ve concentrated on myself, my career, and my child during that time. We’re all doing marvelously. The crazy exboyfriend is married and completely out of my life.Why does it feel unfair that he went on unscathed and I’ve not had a boyfriend since? Am I avoiding men? It’s been several years? Will my issues/injuries ever heal? Why am I completely alone still? Should I celebrate celibacy?Thanks in advance.