I’ve been seeing this girl for 3 1/2 months now and the question is if she loves/likes me enough or is she holding onto something until someone better comes along? The other day, I tried to kiss her on the lips but she WANTED me to kiss her on her cheek. . . .Besides that, we’ve gone out almost every weekend and when I actually ask her about us, she usually replies so far so good or We’ll see. . . . Can you give me some advice on how to test her or approach her in another method??I need advice. . .
This girl is telling you to keep your distance. We don’t know if she’s doing this because she’s holding out for someone better, playing hard to get, or scared to become close to anyone. No matter what the motivation for her behavior, we can say that she is tentative to say the least; surely her hesitant nature began long before you came into the picture.You have two ways of handling the situation. You can either be direct and describe how she comes across (hesitant) and ask her how she wants you to proceed with her; or you can mirror her own hesitation by behaving tentatively yourself. If you don’t put pressure on her for more connection than she can tolerate, her anxiety level will lower and she will most likely come to you on her own.Choose the method that feels most comfortable to you and good luck in thawing her.