Approximately 13 or 14 weeks ago I had surgery, a total hysterectomy due to no iron in my blood, we were not allowed to have sex for 6 to 8 weeks, I patiently waited for the 8 weeks because my partner thought this was best.Now the time has come and gone each night and I have discussed why we do not have relations. I asked him if he was afraid of hurting me, if this surgery caused a problem but I still have not been able to diagnose the problem.Is there anything I can do to create or solve the problem. I am at a loss, our sex life was great before the surgery. In fact we had sex almost everynight except the nights when I had my period. Please help!