Dear Dr. Love,I am a 38 year old, single male. I was violently raped by two men when I was 14 years old. It was such a traumatic event that I have never been able to make love to a woman for fear of inflicting the same pain and torment. I have given up on having a relationship in my lifetime. I hope you have may still have hope for me. Can you please advise me?Thank you,A sad man