Dear Dr. Love:Currently I find myself in a very confusing situation. You see 4 months ago I packed up my car and everything I could squeeze into it, and headed to the Southeast from Seattle Washington. I left my husband of barely 2 years in search of a new beginning. I left because I could no longer handle his dishonesty and lack of emotional support. I promised myself that I’d concentrate on finding out who I was and what made me happy once I settled from my relocation, and most importantly I promised myself NO MEN!!Well, I was in my new life no more then 2 weeks when I met the man of my dreams. He’s very attractive, smart, and witty. We had so much in common and instantly hit it off. I’m currently 4 months into this relationship and everything is still going fine, but I can’t seem to stop thinking about my husband (whom I am separated but not divorced). My husband and I talk on the phone at least once every two weeks, he’s been calling my mom, sister, and grandmother apologizing for how neglectful he was to me and seeking their advice on how to get me back.It seems almost like he’s a totally different person when I talk to him now. All I keep thinking about lately are the words he ends are conversations with . . . ‘I was wrong. I know I was an idiot. I want my wife back, and if I have to relocate to where you are that ‘s what I’ll do. I love you so much, and I want my wife back. ‘I’m so torn. I miss and love my husband, but I also have feelings for the guy I’m seeing now. I care about them both, but I’m married to one. What do I do?? I don’t want to hurt anyone. HELP!!!Signed — Really Confused