Dr. Love,I have been married to the same guy for 20 yrs. We have 3 childrens.I feel as if he doesn’t respect me by his actions! He loves to flirt with other women in my face, he doesn’t care, he more concern how others see him than the way his family does! He helps & defend others before he will me, his wife! He does what he wants (play tennis from sun down to sun up, and the bad part to me is – he learned the game from me- he just takes it too far!)!!With no concerns about what’s best for the family! He set up games, practice but no one knows but him! If an emergency occur I probably couldn’t locate him because he plays comes home and leave again until 4 a.m. in the morning!I am ready to give in the towel! I love and believe family is more important than “anything”! What do you think? He’s got my feeling so mixed up I don’t know what to do!