Dear Dr. Love:I am very much in love with another woman. She is my age, a femme and I am butch. We both are very happy. I am the jealous type, but, usually my intuition is so on target.We have come to visit her family. I feel there is something in the past or maybe still between her son-in-law and her. This is a really sick and bad thought, but, she ususally showers at their house when we visit and he is always getting up and looking towards the door, and I just feel the vibration, what do you think I should do.I have confronted her with this and she says I am crazy. Please help me with this. I am not comfortable being caught up in this thought, how can I know for sure? they used to go to grateful dead things together when her daughter stayed home, etc. ?What do you think?