How can I get my husband to be romantic? I only knew him one month before I married him. People think I’m crazy, but we knew that we had made the right decision. The only problem is that I want some romance!!! Not roses or candy or anything material like that. A nice romantic evening, you know, fourplay and all!!!Rarely does our sex last more than 30 minutes. It doesn’t even have to be sex. Just something surprising that makes me want him more than I already do. He could even surprise me with tickets to the theater or anything. I tell him these things and he just says that he’s not romantic. And I don’t want to be the one to give him all of the ideas. I don’t think he would take me seriously if I did something like surprise him with a picnic or something. He would cooperate, but I don’t think it would turn him on. He is so’Not Into Romance’. What should I do?