Working people throughout the world seem to manage to find time for sex!If you are honest with yourself, I think you will discover that you are using work as an excuse to avoid sex. Keep in mind that it is normal to be afraid. Humans all filled with fears of all kinds. If I had to guess, I would say that the clue to your fear lies in what you said: sex makes a relationship stronger.On a deep level you are likely afraid of having a stronger, more committed relationship. Why? Because we are all deep down afraid of loving and losing. The more attached we become the stronger is the fear of loving and losing. Do some soul searching, own your fears, join the human race.Oftentimes, when a fear is subjected to the light of reason, it often dissipates. It would also be good to tell yourself that while loving and losing is inevitable, it ruins our lives to live in the future.All fear is found in the future. We can imagine all kinds of terrible scenarios that might happen. While we’re trembling in fear we aren’t living our divine purpose, which is to live and love others in the now.