doctor,i feel that my vagina is very tight for complete penetration & when i insert my fingers i can feel a bone at the upper part. i have tried inserting 2 of my fingers & it goes through & i feel that my internals are not fleshy maybe that ‘s why i feel the bone . . will this affect my sex life?please tell me & help me
I think we need to have a crash course on female anatomy. First of all you speak about your vagina being very tight. It is normal for the vagina to feel snug, especially if you are checking when you aren’t sexually aroused. When a woman becomes aroused, the vagina becomes lubricated and expands. The lower third of the vagina always stays tighter, while the end of the vagina actually ballons to make a reservoir for the sperm.As for this bone that you feel at the upper part. I am not sure whether you are feeling the cervix, which is at the end of your vagina. The cervix, which is the neck of the uterus, feels very hard to the touch, like the end of your nose. You may also be feeling your public bone, which is completely normal.What concerns me is how anxious you are about your body. It is possible that your fears come from a simple lack of information. If this is so, then my filling you in should put you at ease and your anxiety should pass.I have the sense, however, that your fear goes beyond a lack of facts. It sounds like you feel defective. What’s more, you seem concerned that your defect will make you unfit for sex. I would listen to your fears and find out where they are coming from.Does your feeling of being physically defective echo feelings that you have about yourself as a person? Is your self-esteem low? Do you not feel adequate?Where did these feelings of self-doubt come from? Did your parents put you down and tell you that you aren’t all right? Did you pick up feelings of inadequacy from one or both of your parents? Oddly enough, it is easy to ‘catch’ the feelings that your parents had about themselves. Figuring out where the defective feeling comes from is the first step in freeing yourself.What about your fear that you won’t be fit for sex? Is this feeling caused by your basic feeling of inadequacy as a person? Is there any part of you that wishes that you wouldn’t be fit for sex? Are you afraid to have sex? Were you ever sexually molested?I have given you a lot to think about. I hope that you feel reassured that you are physically fine.