Dr. Love,I really need your advice regarding a situation I got myself into last week. I threw a party at my house and the man I am seeing (he is married) was suppose to be there. When he didn’t show up, his friends decided to try and ‘hit’ on me the entire evening. One of his friends and co-worker (I thought he no longer worked with him), came up into my room during the party. I sneaked up to bed approx. an hour prior to this happening, because I was really tired. He walked into my room and stood by my bed. I was asleep at the time, and then he decided to crawl into my bed with me!! He held me down, after I told him no over and over again. Finally, I gave in.The music was playing loud downstairs, and he is very muscular. During sex, I stopped and told him to just leave me alone. I could have left the room, but fell asleep immediatley. He kept rubbing on me until I got upset and left the room and ran downstairs. Everyone was gone, so I hid in the bathroom until he left my house. So I can understand why he is upset, but why is he making such a big deal out of it. Especially since we have no committment and he is married.My roommate works at a job next door and talked to him a week later for 1. 5 hours, regarding this incident. He told me that this guy is really hurt. How do I deal with this? I want him back in my life, but I get the feeling by the tone in his voice, that things will never be the same between us. He still calls me, but it is just no the same. I am thinking of going on with my life and exiting his. If he cares about me, and can forgive me, then he will come back.But tell me this. . . . Why can he go home to his wife, and when something like this happens to me, he is hurt. And what can I do to ease his pain and mine? I am dating other men (platonic) but it just isn’t helping much. I miss him more than words can say!!! Please help!!! Thank you, Dr. Love!!!