Dear Dr. LoveWhen using a shower massage as a foreplay devise, my girlfriend will experience orgasms which are so intense that she will sometimes develop an intense headache.The first time this happened the headache lasted throughout the weekend. We have talked abut this and I have tried to help her learn to relax as orgasm approaches, with some moderate success but the ache still is a worry.She is also one of the women who is lucky enough to experience what we have heard labled as ‘female ejaculation’, both with the shower massage and other sources of stimulation.This brings up sort of a multi part question.What causes the headache and how can it be relieved or prevented?Also, why do women who experience this ejaculation feel that their physiological responce to these stimulations is ‘disgusting’?Is this physical ability connected to the headache situation?