I am very much in love with my girlfriend but lately we have been having a lot of ups and downs.We’ve been together for over a year and a half and we were going to get married at the end of this year. We had a big arguement last week and I told her that I didn’t like that she was always telling me what to do and that if I didn’t do what she told me to, she would get mad. Then I said that things were always either her way or no way.Well that really set her off. Then she said quite a few mean things to me. These things really hurt. Anyway, this is the worst fight we’ve ever had. She won’t talk with me and she blocked my number from calling her. It’s been over a week and still no progress.She is very cold to me and overly ‘strictly business’ with me. We do work together too and that also adds to the frustration.I am so much in love with her and she knows it. She also knows that the way she is treating me is killing me. I am hurting so much. She has been mean to me quite a few other times too and can be very emotionally abusive.Lately she says that I am just like her ex husband and that I say the same things he said when they were having tough times. She now says that all men are the same and she doesn’t want anything to do with them.This relationship has been the best relationship I have ever been in and I have really felt loved, however, this has also been the worst relationship I have ever been in too. She can be quite mean and hurtful. I know she loved me very much and her kids loved me too.Now I am just tossed aside and cannot call her or go see her. She gets very angry the more I try to talk with her and straighten this out so we can move on. I love her so very much.What can I do to get us past this bad time and get us back together?Please help. I don’t want to be without her.