My question deals with conflict and hard times in a marriage. My wife and I have been married for 2 years now, and dated for 4 years. We have a 2 year old son together, and life was pretty well, until this past year that is!This past year, we have been through more heartache and disaster in our lives, then most people go through there whole lives! In Febuary of last year, we had a baby girl, who died just hours before deivery. It was the worst nightmare we could have ever been through. In June of last year, I lost my father suddenly, whom I was very close too, and lastly, my job, that I have held for 10 years, was eliminated in September!My wife and I are going through some very rough times dealing with all of this, at the same time. I know they say that, adversity brings you closer together, but I think that too much at the same time, can rip a relationship to pieces also!I guess my question is, how can we overcome all of this, and still have a happy relationship? Right now, we live apart for the time being, because when we were together, we were both so unhappy with ourselves, that it was unbearabe to be together!I would be very greatful for any advice you could give me. I miss our lives together greatly!