I am a 36 year old male and my wife is 34. We’ve been married almost 10 years and this problem started approximately 2 years after we were first married.It seems that while I’m sleeping I try to fondle my wife’s breasts and genitals and have actually tried to initiate intercourse all while I’m in a deep state of sleep. According to my wife this is almost a nightly occurrence and it doesn’t matter if we have had sex before going to sleep or how often we have sex this still keeps occurring.It has gotten so bad that my wife no longer wants to sleep in the same bed with me at night. She only recently brought to my attention how bad this is. In the past she had mentioned that I may have squeezed her breast or she woke up to me rubbing her genitals through her underwear while I’m sound asleep but she felt that since I was sleeping there wasn’t much sense talking about it.Now that she has brought to my attention how bad this really is I’d like to know what I can do about it and why you think it might be happening in the first place?Before I was with my wife I was in other relationships and no one ever mentioned anything like this to me. We also can’t think of anything that would have been a dramatic change in our relationship around the time this started.I do have a very strong sex drive, especially so since my wife and I have been together, but we have a satisfying sex life and for the life of me I can’t understand what would cause me to do this to her. She even tried for almost a month straight having sex with me every night before going to sleep and still this persisted.As you can imagine she is very frustrated with this too. I don’t remember my dreams (never have been one to remember dreams ever) so I can’t say if I’m having sexual dreams or not? I feel terribly about this, especially now knowing how long my wife has put up with it. What can I do to remedy this situation?I really miss sharing a bed with the lady I love.Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.