Dr Love,i have recently cheated on my wife and the guilt built up so much that i couldnt take it any more so i confessed to my wife. She was hurt real bad and i hurt just as bad for doing this to her, but now i need to know how do i start the healing process and get the love we had back. It all started with this computer, we started spending all our time on it and not having any family time. I was married but feeling lonely, so the one nite stand happened and i couldnt live with it anymore. But now how do i save this marriage?Thanks from an Airborne Ranger US Army