So i have this guy a year above me (im currently in 10th grade) and he looks REALLY GOOD. When i first saw him i immedately fall for him but then i somehow forgot about him and i just lived my life until like february when i realised he eats at the cantine like me. For two weeks we made quick eyecontacts like every second day but i believe most of them weren’t on purpose. Sometimes we met outside of the cantine too, then we always made eye contact but maybe it was just bc i was staring lmao he really is so pretty. I dont know much about him, (just the basics bc we follow each other on social media), I only talked to him twice, both of them was one and half a year ago, it wasnt anything serious. Then in april i found out he has a girlfriend for two years now so…I’m still interested in him, but i dont wanna make a move and be the ugly person who messes up someone’s realtionship or smth. But i kinda enjoy this (no)thing, it makes me excited, i look forward to see him, but deep down i always think of moving on, because obviously it hurts that i dont have any chance. I thought about trying to getting close to him as a friend but maybe it would just hurt both of us so yeah i honestly dont know what to do..
Thats the thing ig hehe thank you if you answer!! (Also sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language)
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Despite the language barrier, I get the gist of what you’re saying. I get that you don’t want to mess up his relationship. At the very least, you could strike up a conversation. You could let him know that you are very drawn to him but just discovered that he isn’t single. You could say that if, for whatever reason, his relationship doesn’t go forward, you would like him to reach out to you because you feel that strongly about him. What I suggest is a high-integrity and honest communication that he won’t forget if/when he becomes free.