hi dr.love,ever since i was pregnant with my second child i have not wanted to have sex, she is now 9 months old, — my husband — i have rarely had sex.with my first child i had to be on bed rest — hemmoraged — he was a preemie! i wasn;t allowed to have sex, so with my second pregnancy i was so scared to have sex, — have the same condition, — then my husband masturbated in front of me, at first i tyhought it was sick, — then i really enjoyed doing it with him, — i never want to have sex, i’d rather us masturbate together, can u tell me why? *