Dear Dr Love, I have been going out with this great guy for over 3 months and I’ve known for 5 months before we got together.Everything seems okay but we do not know why that at times we do love each other but at other times we don’t. Both of us are feeling this way and it’s tearing us apart.This on and off love is confusing as we do have feelings for each other. He says that the times when he felt that he didn’t love me is when I’m not responsive to his affections or when I’m moody and quiet.We don’t seem to have the passion that all relationships need and this is draining me. I don’t want to throw this away but at the same time, if I feel that he doesn’t love me that deep that he actually wants to than I rather not have this relationship.Please help. Thank you. Lost