Okay Dr. Love here it goes.I think I am in a relationship with a wonderful man. You see He and I are best friends and I have fallen in love with him. He on the other hand says that he loves me but is not in love with me(whatever that is supposed to mean). We spend all of our time together and yes we are sexually active with each other only.I am a little overweight and he says he has always had a complex about overweight people so I guess that is why he is not ‘in love’ with me. other than that we seem to be soulmates. we think alike, like the same things, read each others mind and do those ‘little things’that mean so much. .So what do you think am I wasting my time on this young man? By the way I forgot to mention that I want to get married and he seems to be confused about what he wants at this time.