Hey there, I’ve been married (long distance) now for about 6 months. It seems like we’re broken. Our relationship, before hand was, in my opinion too soon.We are young but we know we need to be together, for our child.We need to be close, because somehow deep inside we do care for each other. We get into fights alot. We both hate it. She cries in the end, she more so than I. I like this girl named Star who is 18 (only 3 years younger then I). Her mum knows that I am married. I only talked to her once, and its odd, because I know I have ‘lust’ for her.Maybe I want to be more happy, because I know my wife and I aren’t making it together. Whenever she comes in at night to help her mom clean the store, I *always* want to see her. I’m sensitive, so I don’t have the courage to talk to her. When I see her I don’t think about my marriage and how I could hurt everthing.I just have feelings for Star and I know I shouldn’t. She rejected me and I know it will never work, but I just feel, something for her I hardly even know her. Just the basics. It’s hard to let go. Ive never really felt like this, other than for my wife, Claudia.What should I do with all this? Its hard, as it has been, ever since I got my teen wife pregnant.
I give you a lot of credit for standing by your teen wife and your baby. It sounds to me as though you and your wife do care very much for each other.You’re having a very hard time right now. Your constant fighting is making you doubt whether you still love your wife. In this confused state, it is only natural for you to find yourself vulnerable to falling for another woman.It seems to me that giving in to your lust would just be an escape from the difficult situation with your wife. Since you are such a mature and responsible man, I think you really need to take the high road and work on your marital problems.Read my book, Till Death Do Us Part (Unless I Kill You First), which will show you step-by-step how to resolve your conflicts with your wife and stop the endless fighting. When you get along better with your wife, your love feelings for her will reemerge.By the way, you mentioned that you have a long distance relationship with your wife. I wonder if the distance is creating strain. Either you’re married or you’re not. Since you are you should be living together and giving your marriage every chance that it can have of succeeding.Let me know how you make out.I promise you that my book will bring you back from the brink.