I am 42 years old. I am always told I am a great kisser. When I have been involved with a man I get the same comment. They say I am very sexy, attractive but not sexual. I am not sure what I am not doing when having sex with my partner. I was told I go with the flow. I have no problem touching, going down on a man and I stay wet and excited during the whole process. What can you tell me that might help me make them feel I want them while making love. I have met someone I really enjoy but he says he can not figure me out sexually and that bothers him. I wear sexy underclothes also. Help!!! I look forward to your answer. thx